Want my advice? Give the gift of experience, not stuff.
If your Dad really does need a new tie for work, then that’s fine. But if you’re struggling for ideas and just settling on something-anything that can be bought, then STOP. Ask yourself the following questions:
• Does he already have a garage and/or storage shed full of stuff? Does he complain about not having enough space in his garage? *These are signs that he has enough material objects.
• Will the gift item you had in mind create a “memory” to be re-lived later?
• Is there something your Dad would enjoy but won’t do for himself?
• Does your Dad spend the quality time with you that he would like?
Remember when you were a kid at the holidays and your grandmother said she would love anything you made for her yourself? This may sound corny, but it’s true! The gift of you – your time, your presence, your conversation, your hand-written letters – all will make a stronger impression than a shirt, a mug or a BBQ apron.
To get the creative juices flowing, here are some ideas for this year’s Father’s Day gift:
• Tickets to a movie, play or even a rock concert. He might not do this on his own, but he’ll go if you’re his date!
• A Father’s Day picnic or fishing trip with no phones and no texting allowed. Bring his favorite foods and good conversation and laughter. Take photos of your time together.
• Is he a golfer? Buy him a round of golf at a course where he’s never played. Buy him a private lesson to improve his swing.
I think you’re getting the idea.
So, here’s your chance to join the “simplicity” movement. If we reduce our material consumption then we reduce our physical clutter. This, not surprisingly, reduces our mental clutter and creates a less stressful lifestyle. So in honor of fathers everywhere, let’s focus on the quality of the experience and create a lasting memory with our love ones.
*This is a reprint from last year’s blog, but well worth repeating!
Happy Father’s Day!
